{"id":5640,"date":"2014-08-21T00:00:00","date_gmt":"2014-08-20T23:00:00","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/instrid.sk\/uncategorized\/na-ceste-za-stastim\/"},"modified":"2014-08-21T00:00:00","modified_gmt":"2014-08-20T23:00:00","slug":"na-ceste-za-stastim","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/instrid.sk\/en\/archiv\/na-ceste-za-stastim\/","title":{"rendered":"On the road to happiness"},"content":{"rendered":"

Ke\u010f stoj\u00edm na vlakovej stanici\u00a0a vn\u00edmam pon\u00e1h\u013eaj\u00facich sa cestuj\u00facich,\u00a0ktor\u00ed sa strmlav hrn\u00fa\u00a0do vag\u00f3nov, nepozeraj\u00fac v\u013eavo\u00a0\u010di vpravo, nechtiac rozm\u00fd\u0161\u013eam\u00a0nad t\u00fdm, ak\u00fa paralelu to m\u00e1\u00a0s na\u0161\u00edm \u017eivotom.<\/strong><\/h3>\n

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Nie je n\u00e1\u0161 \u017eivot hlavne o tom, \u017ee stoj\u00edme\u00a0na nejakej vlakovej stanici a vyber\u00e1me si\u00a0vlak, na ktor\u00fd nast\u00fapime? Pre\u010do si zvol\u00edme\u00a0pr\u00e1ve ten jeden vlak? A ak\u00fa cestu n\u00e1m dan\u00fd\u00a0vlak prinesie? A pre\u010do napriek tomu, \u017ee po\u00a0\u010dase zist\u00edme, \u017ee dan\u00e1 cesta nie je spr\u00e1vna,\u00a0v nej na\u010falej zotrv\u00e1vame? Pre\u010do je tak\u00e9 \u0165a\u017ek\u00e9\u00a0rozhodn\u00fa\u0165 sa prest\u00fapi\u0165 na in\u00fd vlak? V \u017eivote\u00a0rob\u00edme neust\u00e1le rozhodnutia.<\/p>\n

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\u00a0 \u00a0D\u00f4vody, pre\u010do sa pre dan\u00fd smer rozhodneme,\u00a0m\u00f4\u017eu by\u0165 r\u00f4zne. V\u00e4\u010d\u0161inou si mysl\u00edme,\u00a0\u017ee na danej ceste n\u00e1jdeme to, po \u010dom\u00a0t\u00fa\u017eime a \u010do n\u00e1s rob\u00ed \u0161\u0165astn\u00fdmi. Niekedy sa\u00a0mus\u00edme pre dan\u00fd smer rozhodn\u00fa\u0165 nie preto,\u00a0\u017ee by sme chceli, ale preto, \u017ee n\u00e1s vonkaj\u0161ie\u00a0okolnosti k tomu don\u00fatili. Niektor\u00ed z n\u00e1s\u00a0rad\u0161ej nechaj\u00fa dane rozhodnutia na druh\u00fdch\u00a0a nast\u00fapia v\u0161ade tam, kam im nast\u00fapi\u0165 radia.<\/p>\n

\u00a0 \u00a0Najhor\u0161ie s\u00fa na tom ale t\u00ed, ktor\u00ed neust\u00e1le\u00a0prestupuj\u00fa bu\u010f z vlaku do vlaku alebo sedia\u00a0nespokojne v jednom vlaku neust\u00e1le sn\u00edvaj\u00fa\u00a0o tom, ak\u00e9 by to bolo kr\u00e1sne v \u00faplne odli\u0161nom\u00a0vlaku. U\u017e ch\u00e1pete, kam t\u00fdm mierim?\u00a0U\u017e sa v\u00e1m niekedy stalo, \u017ee ste po nie\u010dom\u00a0t\u00fa\u017eili a nakoniec ke\u010f ste do dosiahli, neboli\u00a0ste \u0161\u0165astn\u00ed? P\u00fdtali ste sa, pre\u010do a ako je to\u00a0mo\u017en\u00e9? Je mo\u017en\u00e9, \u017ee va\u0161e t\u00fa\u017eby neboli va\u0161e\u00a0skuto\u010dn\u00e9 \u017eelania a to po \u010dom ste t\u00fa\u017eili boli\u00a0iba premietnut\u00e9 t\u00fa\u017eby va\u0161ich rodi\u010dov, \u010di spolo\u010dnosti?\u00a0V takomto pr\u00edpade bu\u010f vo vlaku\u00a0na\u010falej zotrv\u00e1te a zostanete mo\u017eno spokojn\u00ed,\u00a0ale nikdy nebudete \u0161\u0165astn\u00ed. Akur\u00e1t ste sa\u00a0zmierili s priemernos\u0165ou.<\/p>\n

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\u00a0 \u00a0V\u00e4\u010d\u0161ina v tejto priemernosti prevegetuje\u00a0svoj \u017eivot, nad\u00e1va na neho, ale nie je\u00a0schopn\u00e1 ho zmeni\u0165. Alebo sn\u00edva o \u017eivote\u00a0inom. S\u0165a\u017eova\u0165 sa alebo iba sn\u00edva\u0165 je celkom\u00a0pohodln\u00e1 a d\u00f4verne zn\u00e1ma pas\u00edvna aktivita.\u00a0Alebo sa m\u00f4\u017eete rozhodn\u00fa\u0165, zaobera\u0165\u00a0sa t\u00fdm, kto v skuto\u010dnosti ste, kam chcete\u00a0\u00eds\u0165 a ak\u00e1 je va\u0161a skuto\u010dn\u00e1 nahota. \u00cds\u0165 a\u017e do\u00a0svojho jadra vy\u017eaduje zna\u010dn\u00fa mieru odvahy\u00a0a niekedy sa v\u00e1m m\u00f4\u017ee sta\u0165, \u017ee to, \u010do uvid\u00edte,\u00a0sa v\u00e1m v\u00f4bec nebude p\u00e1\u010di\u0165. Poh\u013ead do\u00a0vlastn\u00e9ho jadra je ale nevyhnutn\u00fd, in\u00e1\u010d nebudete\u00a0pozna\u0165 sami seba a svoje skuto\u010dn\u00e9\u00a0potreby.<\/p>\n

\u00a0 \u00a0Ak tak urob\u00edte, budete schopn\u00ed rozhodn\u00fa\u0165\u00a0sa prest\u00fapi\u0165 na in\u00fd vlak. V\u00e1\u0161 nov\u00fd\u00a0smer sa v\u00e1m mo\u017eno zo za\u010diatku bude zda\u0165\u00a0n\u00e1ro\u010dn\u00fd, budete c\u00edti\u0165 neistotu a je mo\u017en\u00e9,\u00a0\u017ee budete na za\u010diatku neust\u00e1le pochybova\u0165\u00a0a spom\u00edna\u0165 na star\u00fd dobr\u00fd d\u00f4verne zn\u00e1my\u00a0vlak. V\u017edy je ale lep\u0161ie kona\u0165 a h\u013eada\u0165 svoje\u00a0\u0161\u0165astie. \u017divot je predsa \u00fa\u017easn\u00fd a pon\u00faka tis\u00edce\u00a0mo\u017enost\u00ed. A my, miesto toho, aby sme\u00a0z t\u00fdchto mo\u017enost\u00ed ok\u00fasili, rad\u0161ej neriskujeme\u00a0a zotrv\u00e1vame v tom, \u010do d\u00f4verne pozn\u00e1me.<\/p>\n

\u00a0 \u00a0Napriek tomu, \u017ee sme z toho z\u00fafal\u00ed,\u00a0frustrovan\u00ed. Zvoli\u0165 si svoj vlak je v podstate\u00a0ve\u013emi jednoduch\u00e9. Je to v\u00e1\u0161 \u017eivot, vy rozhodujete\u00a0o pravidl\u00e1ch, vy rozhodujete o va\u0161om\u00a0vlaku. Je to va\u0161a vo\u013eba, niet sa koho \u010di \u010doho\u00a0b\u00e1\u0165. Nikto nem\u00e1 pr\u00e1vo v\u00e1s posudzova\u0165 \u010di odcudzova\u0165,\u00a0v\u0161etky pravidl\u00e1 si vymysleli \u013eudia\u00a0pre lep\u0161iu kontrolu vlakov.<\/p>\n

\u00a0 \u00a0Nestr\u00e1cajte \u010das rozm\u00fd\u0161\u013ean\u00edm, pre\u010do to \u010di\u00a0ono nie je mo\u017en\u00e9 alebo sa ned\u00e1. Nenechajte\u00a0lenivos\u0165, aby v\u00e1s premohla, nenechajte pohodlie\u00a0a istotu, aby z v\u00e1s spravili robotov,\u00a0ktor\u00ed sa chovaj\u00fa bojazlivo, zatrpknuto, predv\u00eddate\u013ene\u00a0a d\u00e1 sa nimi manipulova\u0165.<\/p>\n

\u00a0 \u00a0Objavte svoje skuto\u010dn\u00e9 nah\u00e9 JA a cho\u010fte\u00a0za svoj\u00edm snom. Nez\u00e1le\u017e\u00ed na tom ko\u013eko\u00a0m\u00e1te rokov, kde sa nach\u00e1dzate, ale hlavne\u00a0vykro\u010dte, ostatn\u00e9 kroky pr\u00eddu sami. Nepremrhajte\u00a0zo sam\u00e9ho strachu \u010di letargie svoj\u00a0\u017eivot. Bu\u010fte \u00faprimn\u00ed sami k sebe. Te\u0161te sa.<\/p>\n

A verte mi, je to v\u017edy len a len na\u00a0<\/strong>v\u00e1s, pre ktor\u00fd vlak \u010di smer sa rozhodnete\u00a0<\/strong>a \u010di svoje \u0161\u0165astie v \u017eivote\u00a0<\/strong>n\u00e1jdete!<\/strong><\/p>\n

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