{"id":5818,"date":"2016-10-20T00:00:00","date_gmt":"2016-10-19T23:00:00","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/instrid.sk\/uncategorized\/co-nam-brani-v-uspechu\/"},"modified":"2016-10-20T00:00:00","modified_gmt":"2016-10-19T23:00:00","slug":"co-nam-brani-v-uspechu","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/instrid.sk\/en\/archiv\/co-nam-brani-v-uspechu\/","title":{"rendered":"What is stopping us from succeeding?"},"content":{"rendered":"<h3><span lang=\"sk-SK\">Je \u00fa\u017easn\u00e9, \u017ee ka\u017ed\u00fd m\u00e1 mo\u017enos\u0165 by\u0165 \u00faspe\u0161n\u00fd a\u00a0dosiahnu\u0165 svoje ciele, aj ke\u010f o\u00a0tom nevie alebo si to neuvedomuje. Odkia\u013e poch\u00e1dzame, n\u00e1s ovplyv\u0148uje v\u00e4\u010d\u0161mi, ako sme ochotn\u00ed pripusti\u0165. Ch\u00e1peme skuto\u010dne, nako\u013eko n\u00e1s tvaruje v\u00fdchova a\u00a0v\u0161etko podmie\u0148ovanie, ktor\u00e9 sme s \u0148ou dostali?<\/span><\/h3>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><span lang=\"sk-SK\">V\u00a0posledn\u00fdch rokoch ma viac r\u00e1z pozvali, aby som hovoril s\u00a0maturantmi na t\u00e9mu\u00a0\u00faspech. Ako prv\u00e9 sa v\u00e4\u010d\u0161inou sp\u00fdtam: \u201e\u010co pre v\u00e1s znamen\u00e1 \u00faspech?\u201c Neprest\u00e1va ma udivova\u0165, ako \u010dasto v\u00a0odpovediach po\u010dujem slovo \u201epeniaze\u201c. Ko\u013eko \u013eud\u00ed pozn\u00e1m, ktor\u00ed maj\u00fa peniaze, ale nepova\u017euj\u00fa sa za \u00faspe\u0161n\u00fdch, a\u00a0na druhej strane, ko\u013ek\u00ed s\u00fa \u00faspe\u0161n\u00ed v\u00a0o\u010diach druh\u00fdch, a\u00a0nemaj\u00fa v\u00f4bec peniaze.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span lang=\"sk-SK\">\u010ealej sa p\u00fdtam: \u201eAk\u00e9 m\u00e1te hodnoty v\u00a0\u017eivote?\u201c Chcem, aby uviedli tri. Mo\u017eno v\u00e1s neprekvap\u00ed reakcia \u2013 ani m\u0148a u\u017e neprekvapuje \u2013 \u017ee im e\u0161te nikto t\u00fato ot\u00e1zku nepolo\u017eil, tak nemaj\u00fa odpove\u010f.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span lang=\"sk-SK\">Presved\u010denie, \u017ee m\u00f4\u017eeme \u017ei\u0165 \u00faspe\u0161ne, n\u00e1m \u013eudia okolo n\u00e1s vezm\u00fa u\u017e v\u00a0\u00fatlom veku. Spom\u00ednate si, ke\u010f v\u00e1m niekto povedal, \u017ee \u010dosi nem\u00f4\u017eete urobi\u0165 z celkom ban\u00e1lnych d\u00f4vodov? Pravdou je, \u017ee ten \u010dlovek s\u00e1m nebol schopn\u00fd dan\u00fa vec spravi\u0165, alebo sa pravdepodobne b\u00e1l to v\u00f4bec sk\u00fasi\u0165, preto preniesol svoj strach a\u00a0zlyhanie na v\u00e1s. Rozm\u00fd\u0161\u013eam, \u010di Michelangelo po\u010d\u00faval, ke\u010f mu povedali, \u017ee nem\u00f4\u017ee vyliez\u0165 do v\u00fd\u0161ky, \u013eahn\u00fa\u0165 si tam a\u00a0ma\u013eova\u0165 stropy. Asi nie.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span lang=\"sk-SK\">Je neuverite\u013en\u00e9, \u017ee \u017eiadame od \u013eud\u00ed, aby boli tvoriv\u00ed, ke\u010f ich v\u00a0skuto\u010dnosti asi od 7 rokov v\u00a0kreativite brzd\u00edme. Predt\u00fdm v\u0161etko, \u010do nakreslili, putovalo na chladni\u010dku, a ostatn\u00ed to obdivovali. Potom ich po\u0161leme do \u0161koly, kde u\u010ditelia nechc\u00fa tvorivos\u0165, ale memorovanie. To pokra\u010duje na stredn\u00fdch \u0161kol\u00e1ch, ba aj na niektor\u00fdch univerzit\u00e1ch, tak\u017ee dostaneme vysoko kvalifikovan\u00fdch \u013eud\u00ed, ktor\u00fdm ch\u00fdba kreativita. Pred nieko\u013ek\u00fdmi rokmi som po\u017eiadal skupinu stredn\u00fdch mana\u017e\u00e9rov, aby vyst\u00fapili zo svojho stereotypu a\u00a0nakreslili, ak\u00fd maj\u00fa de\u0148. V\u00e4\u010d\u0161ina z\u00a0nich povedala, \u017ee nevedia kresli\u0165. Ke\u010f deti v\u00a0\u0161k\u00f4lke dostali rovnak\u00fa \u00falohu, s\u0165a\u017eovali sa, \u017ee nemaj\u00fa dos\u0165 farebn\u00fdch ceruziek.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span lang=\"sk-SK\">Flexibilitu nepodporujeme, ke\u010f \u013eu\u010fom hovor\u00edme \u201eTakto to tu nerob\u00edme\u201c alebo \u201eMus\u00edte to urobi\u0165 t\u00fdmto sp\u00f4sobom\u201c. Trieda \u0161es\u0165ro\u010dn\u00fdch det\u00ed dostala \u00falohu nakresli\u0165 Boha \u2013 ka\u017ed\u00e9 die\u0165a malo n\u00e1dhern\u00fd v\u00fdkres. Deti boli dostato\u010dne flexibiln\u00e9, aby uznali, \u017ee aj ostatn\u00ed maj\u00fa kr\u00e1sne obr\u00e1zky a\u00a0\u017ee \u017eiadny nie je nespr\u00e1vny. Mnoh\u00fdm dospel\u00fdm dnes pripad\u00e1 \u0165a\u017ek\u00e9 konceptualizova\u0165 Boha. Stali sme sa s\u00a0prib\u00fadaj\u00facimi rokmi nato\u013eko nepru\u017en\u00ed?<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span lang=\"sk-SK\">Mnoh\u00ed \u013eudia, ktor\u00ed po\u017eiadaj\u00fa o\u00a0sp\u00e4tn\u00fa v\u00e4zbu, chc\u00fa po\u010du\u0165 iba to, \u010do o\u010dak\u00e1vaj\u00fa, a\u00a0nie to, \u010do sa potrebuj\u00fa dozvedie\u0165. Pravda\u017ee, ak niekto o\u00a0sebe nikdy nepo\u010dul ni\u010d dobr\u00e9 \u010di pozit\u00edvne, ani tomu potom neuver\u00ed. \u017divot ich naprogramoval na to, \u017ee s\u00fa v\u017edy zl\u00ed, a\u00a0tak\u00fdmi v\u017edy aj bud\u00fa.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span lang=\"sk-SK\">\u00daspech nast\u00e1va, ke\u010f sprav\u00edte prv\u00fd krok do obdobia, ke\u010f budete m\u00f4c\u0165 poveda\u0165: \u201eUrobil som to najlep\u0161ie, ako som mohol.\u201c \u00daspech nast\u00e1va, ke\u010f niekto povie: \u201eFantastick\u00e9! Gratulujem, spravila si to v\u00fdborne!\u201c \u00daspech m\u00e1 mnoho pod\u00f4b a\u00a0tvarov, a\u00a0v\u017edy je to \u00fa\u017easn\u00fd pocit.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span lang=\"sk-SK\">Ako m\u00f4\u017eeme pom\u00f4c\u0165 k\u00a0\u00faspechu \u013eu\u010fom okolo n\u00e1s? Zauj\u00edmajte sa o\u00a0nich, nie o\u00a0mobiln\u00fd telef\u00f3n s\u00a0funkciou sms. Bu\u010fte k\u00a0nim \u00faprimn\u00ed. Nebojte sa navrhn\u00fa\u0165 zlep\u0161enie alebo pochv\u00e1li\u0165. Bu\u010fte tu pre druh\u00e9ho, ke\u010f v\u00e1s potrebuje. Nebu\u010fte prive\u013emi zanepr\u00e1zdnen\u00ed, mo\u017eno je to posledn\u00e1 \u0161anca toho \u010dloveka po\u010du\u0165. Tak\u017ee \u010do n\u00e1m br\u00e1ni v\u00a0\u00faspechu, ktor\u00fdm chceme by\u0165? My sami. Ak ver\u00edme svojmu podmieneniu, budeme t\u00fdm, \u010do n\u00e1m povedali. Ale ak ver\u00edte v\u00a0seba a\u00a0pestujete si motiv\u00e1ciu k\u00a0\u00faspechu, ak ste dostato\u010dne otvoren\u00ed \u00faprimnej sp\u00e4tnej v\u00e4zbe a\u00a0ak ste dostato\u010dne flexibiln\u00ed prejs\u0165 na poz\u00edciu \u00faspechu, budete \u00faspe\u0161n\u00ed.<\/span><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Je \u00fa\u017easn\u00e9, \u017ee ka\u017ed\u00fd m\u00e1 mo\u017enos\u0165 by\u0165 \u00faspe\u0161n\u00fd a\u00a0dosiahnu\u0165 svoje ciele, aj ke\u010f o\u00a0tom nevie alebo si to neuvedomuje. Odkia\u013e poch\u00e1dzame, n\u00e1s ovplyv\u0148uje v\u00e4\u010d\u0161mi, ako<\/p>","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[51],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-5818","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-archiv","two-columns"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/instrid.sk\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/5818","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/instrid.sk\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/instrid.sk\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/instrid.sk\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/instrid.sk\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=5818"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/instrid.sk\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/5818\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/instrid.sk\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=5818"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/instrid.sk\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=5818"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/instrid.sk\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=5818"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}