{"id":5868,"date":"2017-05-22T00:00:00","date_gmt":"2017-05-21T23:00:00","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/instrid.sk\/uncategorized\/ake-su-vase-hodnoty\/"},"modified":"2017-05-22T00:00:00","modified_gmt":"2017-05-21T23:00:00","slug":"ake-su-vase-hodnoty","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/instrid.sk\/en\/archiv\/ake-su-vase-hodnoty\/","title":{"rendered":"What are your values?"},"content":{"rendered":"

Cel\u00e9 roky rozm\u00fd\u0161\u013eam o\u00a0svojich \u00fastredn\u00fdch hodnot\u00e1ch. Menili sa, ako som r\u00e1stol aj ako som dozrieval, ale v\u017edy som ich mal.<\/span><\/h3>\n

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Jednou z\u00a0mojich \u00fastredn\u00fdch hodn\u00f4t je \u013eudskos\u0165.<\/p>\n

M\u00f4j str\u00fdko mi povedal: \u201eKe\u010f si \u0161\u0165astn\u00fd, oslavuj, ke\u010f si smutn\u00fd, pla\u010d, a\u00a0ke\u010f treba, pom\u00f4\u017e.\u201c Cel\u00fd \u017eivot som sa usiloval pod\u013ea toho \u017ei\u0165. Ukazova\u0165 druh\u00fdm svoju \u013eudsk\u00fa str\u00e1nku je \u00fa\u017easn\u00e9. Nerob\u00edme to pre odmenu, ale \u013eudia v\u00e1s zato miluj\u00fa.<\/span><\/p>\n

\u010eal\u0161ia z\u00a0mojich hodn\u00f4t je \u00faprimnos\u0165. M\u00e1m pocit, \u017ee \u00faprimnos\u0165ou nem\u00e1m \u010do strati\u0165 a\u00a0spr\u00e1vam sa tak.<\/span><\/p>\n

Ke\u010f sme k\u00a0druh\u00fdm \u00faprimn\u00ed, a\u00a0najm\u00e4 ak sme pozit\u00edvni, d\u00e1vame im poc\u00edti\u0165, \u017ee n\u00e1m na nich z\u00e1le\u017e\u00ed. M\u00f4\u017eu zabudn\u00fa\u0165, \u010do sme povedali, ale ten pocit s\u00a0nimi ostane nav\u017edy.<\/span><\/p>\n

\u017divot ma nau\u010dil, \u017ee ak chcete by\u0165 \u013eudsk\u00ed a\u00a0starostliv\u00ed, mus\u00edte by\u0165 anga\u017eovan\u00ed \u2013 anga\u017eovanos\u0165 je mojou tre\u0165ou k\u013e\u00fa\u010dovou hodnotou.<\/span><\/p>\n

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V\u0161etci stret\u00e1vame a mus\u00edme zn\u00e1\u0161a\u0165 \u013eud\u00ed, ktor\u00ed nie s\u00fa zaanga\u017eovan\u00ed. V\u010faka okolnostiam, ktor\u00e9 nikto nemal pod kontrolou, som v detstve mal str\u00fdka, ktor\u00fd sa ve\u013emi anga\u017eoval v\u00a0mojej v\u00fdchove. Pre zastaran\u00e9 z\u00e1kony ma vtedy nemohol adoptova\u0165, ale ka\u017ed\u00fa vo\u013en\u00fa min\u00fatu venoval tomu, aby som vyrastal s\u00a0mor\u00e1lnymi z\u00e1sadami a\u00a0\u00factou k\u00a0sebe aj k\u00a0druh\u00fdm. \u010cas, ktor\u00fd mi venoval, naozaj tr\u00e1vil so mnou, nerozpty\u013eoval ho mobil, po\u010d\u00edta\u010de ani adrenal\u00edn z\u00a0r\u00fdchlosti, akou \u017eijeme dnes. Bol tam so mnou. Netu\u0161il som, \u017ee sa pri\u00fa\u010d<\/span>am cennej \u017eivotnej hodnote, ani on to tak nebral, jednoducho sa to stalo. Vyr\u00e1stol som naplno anga\u017eovan\u00fd v\u00a0tom, \u010do rob\u00edm.<\/p>\n

Anga\u017eovanos\u0165ou som z\u00edskal n\u00e1skok vo v\u0161etkom, o\u00a0\u010do som sa pok\u00fasil. V\u00a0nie\u010dom som zlyhal a\u00a0v\u00a0mnohom som mal \u00faspech \u2013 ale ur\u010dite by som bol zlyhal vo v\u0161etkom, ak by zaanga\u017eovanos\u0165 nebola v\u00a0mojej v\u00fdchove a\u00a0DNA. Pre\u010do je anga\u017eovanos\u0165 tak\u00e1 d\u00f4le\u017eit\u00e1 v\u00a02017 aj\u00a0v\u00a0nasleduj\u00facich rokoch?<\/span><\/p>\n

Som presved\u010den\u00fd, \u017ee pr\u00e1ve anga\u017eovan\u00ed \u013eudia n\u00e1s poved\u00fa tam, kam smerujeme, a\u00a0nepozn\u00e1m nikoho, kto by nasledoval neanga\u017eovan\u00e9ho l\u00eddra. H\u00e1dam ka\u017ed\u00fd \u010dlovek niekedy v\u00a0\u017eivote povedie nejak\u00fa skupinu alebo k\u00a0nejakej v\u00a0minulosti patril. Polo\u017ete si ot\u00e1zku: ako budete pristupova\u0165 k\u00a0neanga\u017eovan\u00fdm \u010dlenom alebo ako ste sa k\u00a0nim spr\u00e1vali v\u00a0minulosti?<\/span><\/p>\n

Ani nie pred 30 rokmi bolo pre \u013eud\u00ed be\u017en\u00e9 zap\u00edsa\u0165 si telef\u00f3nne \u010d\u00edslo a\u00a0zapam\u00e4ta\u0165 si ho. Ani nie pred 30 rokmi bolo \u00faplne be\u017en\u00e9 posla\u0165 niekomu l\u00edstok, adres\u00e1t ho prijal a\u00a0pod\u013ea situ\u00e1cie konal. Ani nie pred 30 rokmi bolo be\u017en\u00e9 dosta\u0165 poh\u013eadnicu k\u00a0narodenin\u00e1m \u010di Vianociam a\u00a0po\u010fakova\u0165 sa za \u0148u.<\/span><\/p>\n

\u010co sa stalo? Zmenil sa syst\u00e9m telef\u00f3nnych \u010d\u00edsel nato\u013eko, \u017ee s\u00fa pre n\u00e1\u0161 pri\u0165a\u017ek\u00e9 na zapam\u00e4tanie? M\u00e1me lep\u0161\u00ed sp\u00f4sob, ako druh\u00e9mu \u010dosi ozn\u00e1mi\u0165, a\u00a0boli narodeniny a\u00a0Vianoce zru\u0161en\u00e9 ako d\u00f4le\u017eit\u00e9 udalosti?<\/span><\/p>\n

Nie, mysl\u00edm si, \u017ee \u013eudia len prijali neanga\u017eovanos\u0165 ako sp\u00f4sob \u017eivota. Ako star\u0161\u00ed \u010dlen glob\u00e1lnej komunity a\u00a0ako \u010dlovek, ktor\u00fd rozm\u00fd\u0161\u013ea o\u00a0minulosti, m\u00e1m pocit, \u017ee je na \u010dase pozva\u0165 \u013eud\u00ed, aby sa znovu nau\u010dili nie\u010do z\u00a0toho, \u010do z\u00a0n\u00e1s spravilo \u00fa\u017easn\u00fa civiliz\u00e1ciu.<\/span><\/p>\n

Pr\u00e1ve anga\u017eovanos\u0165 n\u00e1m priniesla tento n\u00e1dhern\u00fd svet. A\u00a0predsa tr\u00e1vime to\u013eko \u010dasu \u2013 a\u00a0v\u017edy tomu tak bolo \u2013 podmie\u0148ovan\u00edm druh\u00fdch, aby robili to, \u010do od nich chceme my, aby sa spr\u00e1vali, tak ako my chceme, a\u00a0aby mali radi to ist\u00e9 \u010do my. Sme v\u00a0tom ve\u013emi \u00faspe\u0161n\u00ed \u2013 na \u00fakor \u013eudskosti \u2013 a\u00a0predsa odrazu akceptujeme neanga\u017eovanos\u0165.<\/span><\/p>\n

M\u00f4j \u017eivot pri sp\u00e4tnom poh\u013eade vyzer\u00e1 ako hojda\u010dka, ale som absol\u00fatne spokojn\u00fd s\u00a0t\u00fdm, ako to v\u0161etko vyp\u00e1lilo: som po\u017eehnan\u00fd rodinou a\u00a0priate\u013emi, ktor\u00fdch som si vybral, ktor\u00ed ma miluj\u00fa. M\u00e1m pocit, \u017ee som nie\u010do priniesol t\u00fdm, s\u00a0ktor\u00fdmi som ho zdie\u013eal. Na z\u00e1ver sa s\u00a0vami e\u0161te raz podel\u00edm s\u00a0mojimi tromi k\u013e\u00fa\u010dov\u00fdmi hodnotami: \u013dudskos\u0165, \u00daprimnos\u0165 a\u00a0Anga\u017eovanos\u0165. Ak\u00e9 s\u00fa va\u0161e?<\/span><\/p>\n

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\u201e\u013dudia \u010dasto zabudn\u00fa, \u010do ste povedali, ale bud\u00fa si pam\u00e4ta\u0165, ako sa c\u00edtili.\u201c<\/h3>\n

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Cel\u00e9 roky rozm\u00fd\u0161\u013eam o\u00a0svojich \u00fastredn\u00fdch hodnot\u00e1ch. Menili sa, ako som r\u00e1stol aj ako som dozrieval, ale v\u017edy som ich mal.   Jednou z\u00a0mojich \u00fastredn\u00fdch hodn\u00f4t<\/p>","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[51],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-5868","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-archiv","two-columns"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/instrid.sk\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/5868","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/instrid.sk\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/instrid.sk\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/instrid.sk\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/instrid.sk\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=5868"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/instrid.sk\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/5868\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/instrid.sk\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=5868"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/instrid.sk\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=5868"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/instrid.sk\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=5868"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}