{"id":6005,"date":"2018-07-04T00:00:00","date_gmt":"2018-07-03T23:00:00","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/instrid.sk\/uncategorized\/co-to-vlastne-povedal\/"},"modified":"2018-07-04T00:00:00","modified_gmt":"2018-07-03T23:00:00","slug":"co-to-vlastne-povedal","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/instrid.sk\/en\/archiv\/co-to-vlastne-povedal\/","title":{"rendered":"What did he actually say?"},"content":{"rendered":"<h3>Op\u00e4\u0165 sme svedkami z\u00e1kladn\u00fdch zlyhan\u00ed medzi svetov\u00fdmi l\u00eddrami. T\u00ed nieko\u013ek\u00ed, ktor\u00ed sa naozaj s\u00fastre\u010fuj\u00fa na vodcovsk\u00e9 aspekty l\u00edderskej poz\u00edcie, s\u00fa v\u00fdnimo\u010dn\u00fdmi pilermi svojej spolo\u010dnosti a vzorom pre svojich nasledovn\u00edkov.<\/h3>\n<h3><\/h3>\n<p>Ned\u00e1vno som videl prezent\u00e1ciu hlavy \u0161t\u00e1tu pre \u010fal\u0161\u00edch svetov\u00fdch l\u00eddrov a ch\u00e1pem n\u00edzku d\u00f4veru v slov\u00e1, ktor\u00e9 odzneli. Nehovor\u00edm teraz o obsahu, ale o prednese a vizu\u00e1lnom dopade prezent\u00e1cie. L\u00eddri nevedia, \u017ee o\u010dn\u00fd kontakt buduje d\u00f4veru v obecenstve? Nepo\u010duli, \u017ee ukazovanie prstom je agres\u00edvne a \u017ee \u00faplne be\u017en\u00e1 chyba, ke\u010f nevedia, o \u010dom bud\u00fa hovori\u0165, ukazuje nevedomos\u0165? \u013dudstvo po\u010das evol\u00facie nadobudlo schopnos\u0165 h\u013eadie\u0165 si do o\u010d\u00ed. M\u00e1m r\u00e1d sc\u00e9nu z filmu P\u00e1n prste\u0148ov, ke\u010f Will mus\u00ed zdvihn\u00fa\u0165 zrak na \u00farove\u0148 druh\u00e9ho, aby sa mu mohol pozrie\u0165 do o\u010d\u00ed &#8211; ve\u010f toto v\u0161etci pre\u017e\u00edvame denne nieko\u013eko r\u00e1z. Mnoh\u00ed l\u00eddri sa v\u00e4\u010d\u0161inou pozeraj\u00fa do pozn\u00e1mok alebo mimo obecenstva &#8211; pre\u010do?<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>D\u00f4vodov m\u00f4\u017ee by\u0165 ve\u013ea, ale obecenstvo si v\u00e4\u010d\u0161inou bude myslie\u0165, \u201ehovor\u00ed nepravdy\u201c. Ak vyh\u013ead\u00e1te gesto ukazovania prstom, ako prv\u00e9 sa dozviete, \u017ee s\u00favis\u00ed s agresiou, a predsa l\u00eddri opakovane ukazuj\u00fa do obecenstva, ktor\u00e9 sa potom c\u00edti previnilo a neschopne. L\u00edder, ktor\u00fd pod hrozbou d\u00f4sledkov vy\u017eaduje viac od svojich zamestnancov, vlastne hovor\u00ed: \u201eM\u00e1m probl\u00e9my.\u201c Pozrite sa bli\u017e\u0161ie na ukazovanie prstom &#8211; jeden prst ukazuje na obecenstvo, ale tri smeruj\u00fa na hovoriaceho. Pri gest\u00e1ch s otvoren\u00fdmi dla\u0148ami sa v\u0161etci c\u00edtime \u010das\u0165ou celku, a predsa je ve\u013ea l\u00eddrov nato\u013eko s\u00fastreden\u00fdch len na seba, \u017ee im na obecenstve nez\u00e1le\u017e\u00ed.<\/p>\n<p>Pozeranie do pozn\u00e1mok alebo nedostato\u010dn\u00fd o\u010dn\u00fd kontakt s publikom po\u010das prezent\u00e1cie sa ned\u00e1 ospravedlni\u0165 t\u00fdm, \u017ee \u201eje tam ve\u013ea detailov, mus\u00edm to \u010d\u00edta\u0165, aby publikum dostalo v\u0161etky fakty,\u201c alebo \u201erozm\u00fd\u0161\u013eam, \u010do poviem \u010falej\u201c apod.<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>V skuto\u010dnosti ide o nedostato\u010dn\u00fd z\u00e1ujem o \u013eud\u00ed v obecenstve alebo nedostato\u010dn\u00fa sebad\u00f4veru. Ned\u00e1vno som mal t\u00fa \u010das\u0165 po\u010du\u0165 pr\u00edhovor, ktor\u00fd patr\u00ed k najlep\u0161\u00edm, ak\u00e9 som za svojich sedem desa\u0165ro\u010d\u00ed po\u010dul. Mlad\u00e1 d\u00e1ma sa ani raz nepozrela do pozn\u00e1mok, cel\u00fd \u010das s nami udr\u017eovala kontakt a pri jej gest\u00e1ch s otvoren\u00fdmi dla\u0148ami som c\u00edtil vr\u00facnos\u0165 a hrdos\u0165, skr\u00e1tka, bolo to fascinuj\u00face. T\u00e1 \u017eena m\u00e1 Downov syndr\u00f3m a je pr\u00edkladom hodn\u00fdm nasledovania pre mnoh\u00fdch l\u00eddrov.<\/p>\n<p>Ako m\u00f4\u017eu chybuj\u00faci l\u00eddri z\u00edska\u0165 re\u0161pekt, o ktor\u00fd sa uch\u00e1dzaj\u00fa? Po prv\u00e9, nech sa posadia do publika pri vlastnej prezent\u00e1cii. \u00c1no. Navrhujem, aby sa na seba pozreli z na\u0161ej perspekt\u00edvy. V\u017edy sa l\u00eddrov p\u00fdtam, \u010do pova\u017euj\u00fa za tri najlep\u0161ie aspekty svojej prezent\u00e1cie, ak neber\u00fa do \u00favahy obsah. Mnoh\u00ed maj\u00fa probl\u00e9my s odpove\u010fou na t\u00fato jednoduch\u00fa ot\u00e1zku. Pre\u010do? D\u00f4vodom je nedostatok z\u00e1ujmu o druh\u00fdch a prive\u013ea z\u00e1umu o seba. Po druh\u00e9, v\u0161\u00edmajte si, ako komunikuj\u00fa \u013eudia s poruchami sluchu a re\u010di, a napokon, zv\u00e1\u017ete kou\u010ding na kr\u00e1tky \u010das, n\u00e1jdite si kou\u010da, ktor\u00fd sa neboj\u00ed da\u0165 \u00faprimn\u00fa sp\u00e4tn\u00fa v\u00e4zbu, ktor\u00e1 povedie k zlep\u0161eniu.<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Op\u00e4\u0165 sme svedkami z\u00e1kladn\u00fdch zlyhan\u00ed medzi svetov\u00fdmi l\u00eddrami. T\u00ed nieko\u013ek\u00ed, ktor\u00ed sa naozaj s\u00fastre\u010fuj\u00fa na vodcovsk\u00e9 aspekty l\u00edderskej poz\u00edcie, s\u00fa v\u00fdnimo\u010dn\u00fdmi pilermi svojej spolo\u010dnosti a<\/p>","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[51],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-6005","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-archiv","two-columns"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/instrid.sk\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/6005","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/instrid.sk\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/instrid.sk\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/instrid.sk\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/instrid.sk\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=6005"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/instrid.sk\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/6005\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/instrid.sk\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=6005"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/instrid.sk\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=6005"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/instrid.sk\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=6005"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}