{"id":6854,"date":"2024-07-17T00:00:00","date_gmt":"2024-07-16T23:00:00","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/instrid.sk\/uncategorized\/deti-nemaju-ani-nechcu-su-v-zivote-nestastnejsi\/"},"modified":"2024-07-17T00:00:00","modified_gmt":"2024-07-16T23:00:00","slug":"deti-nemaju-ani-nechcu-su-v-zivote-nestastnejsi","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/instrid.sk\/en\/archiv\/deti-nemaju-ani-nechcu-su-v-zivote-nestastnejsi\/","title":{"rendered":"Mlad\u00ed \u013eudia, ktor\u00ed nechc\u00fa ma\u0165 deti. Ak\u00e9 d\u00f4sledky m\u00e1 t\u00e1to neprisp\u00f4sobivos\u0165?"},"content":{"rendered":"

Miluj\u00fa n\u00e1s napriek na\u0161im nedostatkom, rozosmievaj\u00fa a te\u0161ia. Z\u00e1rove\u0148 n\u00e1s \u010dastokr\u00e1t vyt\u00e1\u010daj\u00fa do nepr\u00ed\u010detnosti. \u017divot s de\u0165mi je rozhodne pestr\u00fd, no n\u00e1ro\u010dn\u00fd.<\/p>\n

O tom, \u010di deti<\/strong> prin\u00e1\u0161aj\u00fa do \u017eivota viac radost\u00ed alebo starost\u00ed, a \u010di s\u00fa \u0161\u0165astnej\u0161ie bezdetn\u00e9 p\u00e1ry alebo rodi\u010dia ved\u00fa polemiky aj vedci. Hoci rozli\u010dn\u00e9 \u0161t\u00fadie pri\u0161li s r\u00f4znymi z\u00e1vermi, na jednom sa zhodn\u00fa, deti nie s\u00fa nevyhnutnou podmienkou \u0161\u0165astn\u00e9ho \u017eivota a staroby.<\/p>\n

Spokojnej\u0161\u00ed, ale a\u017e ke\u010f deti od\u00eddu z domu<\/strong><\/h3>\n

Pod\u013ea v\u00fdskumu nemeck\u00fdch vedcov z Heidelbergovej Univerzity, do ktor\u00e9ho sa zapojilo 55 000 Eur\u00f3panov nad 50 rokov, boli rodi\u010dia naozaj \u0161\u0165astnej\u0161\u00ed ne\u017e bezdetn\u00ed<\/strong>, ale len v pr\u00edpade, \u017ee deti u\u017e opustili rodn\u00e9 hniezdo a osamostatnili sa.<\/p>\n

Pr\u00e1ve udr\u017eiavanie soci\u00e1lneho kontaktu s dospel\u00fdmi de\u0165mi a vz\u00e1jomn\u00e1 podpora prispela k men\u0161ej osamelosti a celkovej spokojnosti<\/strong> medzi star\u0161\u00edmi rodi\u010dmi. Naopak deti, ktor\u00e9 e\u0161te neopustili rodi\u010dov a \u017eili v spolo\u010dnej dom\u00e1cnosti negat\u00edvne ovplyv\u0148ovali ich pohodu. Na z\u00e1klade t\u00fdchto pozorovan\u00ed m\u00f4\u017eeme poveda\u0165, \u017ee pozit\u00edvny efekt rodi\u010dovstva prich\u00e1dzaj\u00fa zarovno so starobou.<\/p>\n

Av\u0161ak Christoph Becker, jeden z\u00a0\u010dlenov v\u00fdskumn\u00e9ho t\u00edmu, pre CNN dod\u00e1va, \u017ee bohat\u00e9 spolo\u010densk\u00e9 kontakty, ktor\u00e9 n\u00e1s robia spokojnej\u0161\u00edmi nemusia nevyhnutne poch\u00e1dza\u0165 od det\u00ed. Pr\u00e1ve \u00fazke spolo\u010densk\u00e9 kontakty, zdie\u013eanie probl\u00e9mov a\u00a0starost\u00ed s\u00a0priate\u013emi zanech\u00e1va v\u00a0\u017eivote star\u0161\u00edch bezdetn\u00fdch \u013eud\u00ed rovnako pozit\u00edvny efekt.<\/p>\n Kontakty s dospel\u00fdmi de\u0165mi prin\u00e1\u0161aj\u00fa do \u017eivota spokojnos\u0165. Zdroj: unsplash.com\n

N\u00f3rski rodi\u010dia s\u00fa \u0161\u0165astnej\u0161\u00ed ako americk\u00ed<\/strong><\/p>\n

Mnoh\u00e9 doteraj\u0161ie americk\u00e9 \u0161t\u00fadie potvrdili, \u017ee starostlivos\u0165 o\u00a0deti ober\u00e1 rodi\u010dov o\u00a0\u0161\u0165astie<\/strong>. Man\u017eelia s\u00a0de\u0165mi boli viac \u00fazkostliv\u00ed, depres\u00edvni<\/strong> a\u00a0nespokojn\u00ed s\u00a0man\u017eelstvom ako bezdetn\u00e9 dvojice. Starostlivos\u0165 o\u00a0die\u0165a bola pre nich len o\u00a0nie\u010do pr\u00edjemnej\u0161ia ne\u017e dom\u00e1ce pr\u00e1ce alebo doch\u00e1dzanie do zamestnania.<\/p>\n

Av\u0161ak v t\u00fdchto v\u00fdskumoch neboli zoh\u013ead\u0148ovan\u00e9 mnoh\u00e9 in\u00e9 faktory, napr\u00edklad rozdiely medzi n\u00e1rodmi alebo celkov\u00fd pr\u00edjem dom\u00e1cnost\u00ed. Pred nieko\u013ek\u00fdmi rokmi traja americk\u00ed vedci Glass, Simon a\u00a0Andersson porovnali bezdetn\u00e9 p\u00e1ry a\u00a0p\u00e1ry s\u00a0de\u0165mi v\u00a0dvadsiatich dvoch krajin\u00e1ch sveta. V\u00fdsledok bol prekvapiv\u00fd.<\/p>\n

Rodi\u010dia v\u00a0N\u00f3rsku a\u00a0Ma\u010farsku boli naozaj \u0161\u0165astnej\u0161\u00ed, naopak britsk\u00ed, austr\u00e1lski a\u00a0americk\u00ed rodi\u010dia poci\u0165ovali menej \u0161\u0165astia ako bezdetn\u00e9 p\u00e1ry v\u00a0ich krajine. Pre\u010do je tomu tak?<\/p>\n

M\u00f4\u017ee za to politika<\/strong><\/h3>\n

Pr\u00e1ve v\u00a0N\u00f3rsku \u0161t\u00e1t poskytuje rodi\u010dom viacer\u00e9 benefity, ktor\u00e9 Ameri\u010danom ch\u00fdbaj\u00fa. Napr\u00edklad platen\u00fa matersk\u00fa dovolenku a v\u00e4\u010d\u0161iu flexibilitu pracovn\u00e9ho \u010dasu<\/strong>. Rodinne orientovan\u00e1 politika nie je pr\u00ednosom len pre rodi\u010dov, ale pre cel\u00fa spolo\u010dnos\u0165. Je spojen\u00e1 napr\u00edklad s\u00a0ni\u017e\u0161ou kriminalitou a\u00a0vy\u0161\u0161ou produktivitou obyvate\u013estva.<\/p>\n

Viac radosti, ale aj viac stresu<\/strong><\/h3>\n

V\u00fdskumn\u00edci Princetonskej univerzity a\u00a0univerzity Stony Brook naopak nena\u0161li v\u00fdrazn\u00fd rozdiel medzi sk\u00faman\u00fdmi skupinami. P\u00e1ry s de\u0165mi boli v \u017eivote pribli\u017ene rovnako spokojn\u00e9 ako bezdetn\u00e9, denne v\u0161ak za\u017e\u00edvali viac radosti, ale aj viac stresu.<\/p>\n

\u201e\u017divot bez det\u00ed je jednoducho stabilnej\u0161\u00ed,\u201c kon\u0161tatuje pre CNBC Jennifer Glass, profesorka sociol\u00f3gie na univerzite v Texase. Z\u00e1rove\u0148 dod\u00e1va, \u017ee rodi\u010dovstvo nie je iba o \u0161\u0165ast\u00ed: \u201eJe to o l\u00e1ske a oddanosti, ktor\u00fa k tomuto nov\u00e9mu \u010dloveku c\u00edtite. O ochrane a n\u00e1klonnosti, ktor\u00fa mu chcete poskytn\u00fa\u0165.\u201c<\/p>\n

Sebeck\u00ed alebo naopak?<\/strong><\/h3>\n

N\u00e1js\u0165 si dobre platen\u00fa pr\u00e1cu, miluj\u00faceho partnera a zalo\u017ei\u0165 si rodinu. Pr\u00e1ve takto si dospelos\u0165 predstavovala gener\u00e1cia na\u0161ich rodi\u010dov, v s\u00fa\u010dasnosti je to inak. \u010coraz viac mlad\u00fdch \u013eud\u00ed nechce deti v\u00f4bec alebo zalo\u017eenie rodiny odklad\u00e1. T\u00ed, \u010do deti dobrovo\u013ene odmietnu \u010dasto z\u00edskaj\u00fa n\u00e1lepku sebeck\u00fdch \u013eud\u00ed. Najm\u00e4, ak s\u00fa to \u017eeny.<\/p>\n

Zameranie na \u0161t\u00fadium, kari\u00e9ru, dobrovo\u013en\u00edctvo, ale aj boj proti klimatickej kr\u00edze<\/strong>. D\u00f4vody bezdetn\u00e9ho \u017eivota s\u00fa r\u00f4zne. Aj dospel\u00ed, ktor\u00ed maj\u00fa k de\u0165om pozit\u00edvni vz\u0165ah vlastn\u00e9 deti nechc\u00fa. Deti si vy\u017eaduj\u00fa neust\u00e1lu starostlivos\u0165 a \u010das, rovnako aj materi\u00e1lne zabezpe\u010denie. Pr\u00e1ve rozhodnutie nema\u0165 deti, zn\u00ed\u017ei\u0165 tak uhl\u00edkov\u00fa stopu<\/strong> a rast popul\u00e1cie, sp\u00e1ja mnoh\u00fdch \u013eud\u00ed po celom svete.<\/p>\n Konzumn\u00fd \u017eivot je pre deti l\u00e1kadlom. Zdroj: unsplash.com\n

Pochovan\u00e9 amb\u00edcie<\/strong><\/h3>\n

Aj v 21. storo\u010d\u00ed sa o deti v rodin\u00e1ch staraj\u00fa predov\u0161etk\u00fdm \u017eeny. Mu\u017ei sa m\u00f4\u017eu naplno venova\u0165 kari\u00e9re, budova\u0165 vlastn\u00fa firmu a cez v\u00edkendy si u\u017ei\u0165 \u010das s rodinou. Matky, ktor\u00e9 si nem\u00f4\u017eu dovoli\u0165 opatrovate\u013eku a v\u0161etku energiu a \u010das venuj\u00fa v\u00fdchove a starostlivosti o deti, t\u00fato mo\u017enos\u0165 nemaj\u00fa. \u017deny maj\u00fa takisto svoje ciele a amb\u00edcie, \u010di u\u017e s\u00fa to vedkyne, politi\u010dky, umelkyne alebo podnikate\u013eky. Pr\u00e1ve t\u00fa\u017eba pon\u00faknu\u0165 svetu viac ako len starostlivos\u0165 o deti je d\u00f4vodom pre\u010do sa mnoh\u00e9 z nich materstva<\/strong> vzdaj\u00fa.<\/p>\n

Ak sa niekto rozhodne ma\u0165 deti, je to v\u00a0poriadku. Ak nie, je to tie\u017e v\u00a0poriadku. Ka\u017ed\u00fd si predstavuje \u0161\u0165astn\u00fd a\u00a0spokojn\u00fd \u017eivot inak, \u010di s\u00a0de\u0165mi alebo bez nich, no nikto si nezasl\u00fa\u017ei by\u0165 odsudzovan\u00fd za svoje rozhodnutie.<\/p>\n

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Miluj\u00fa n\u00e1s napriek na\u0161im nedostatkom, rozosmievaj\u00fa a te\u0161ia. Z\u00e1rove\u0148 n\u00e1s \u010dastokr\u00e1t vyt\u00e1\u010daj\u00fa do nepr\u00ed\u010detnosti. \u017divot s de\u0165mi je rozhodne pestr\u00fd, no n\u00e1ro\u010dn\u00fd. O tom, \u010di<\/p>","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[51],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-6854","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-archiv","two-columns"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/instrid.sk\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/6854","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/instrid.sk\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/instrid.sk\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/instrid.sk\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/instrid.sk\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=6854"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/instrid.sk\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/6854\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/instrid.sk\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=6854"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/instrid.sk\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=6854"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/instrid.sk\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=6854"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}