\u010co v\u00e1m napadne ako prv\u00e9, ke\u010f po\u010dujete v\u00fdraz \u201ebody-shaming\u201c?<\/p>\n
Ur\u010dite sa v\u00e1m vybavil obraz \u010dloveka s nadv\u00e1hou, z ktor\u00e9ho si robia srandu. Samozrejme, aj to je realita. Av\u0161ak na opa\u010dnej strane spektra n\u00e1jdeme v\u0161etk\u00fdch prirodzene \u0161t\u00edhlych \u013eud\u00ed, ktor\u00ed s\u00fa rovnako vystavovan\u00ed ka\u017edodennej ,,\u0161ikane\u201c.<\/p>\n
Ot\u00e1zka znie, pre\u010do je fat-shaming neslu\u0161n\u00fd, ale skinny-shaming tolerujeme?<\/strong><\/p>\n <\/p>\n ,,Je\u017e\u00ed\u0161 ty si chud\u00e1,\u201c –\u00a0\u201eNajedz sa, pros\u00edm \u0165a,\u201c –\u00a0,,\u017dije\u0161 z\u00a0l\u00e1sky?“-\u00a0,,Nem\u00e1\u0161 anorexiu?,“ -,,Si kos\u0165 a\u00a0ko\u017ea,\u201c – ,,Vyzer\u00e1\u0161 choro,“- \u201e\u017densk\u00e9 telo vyzer\u00e1 inak.“ Drsn\u00e9 v\u0161ak?<\/strong><\/p>\n Toto je len zlomok pr\u00edkladov, ktor\u00e9 n\u00e1m zv\u00e4\u010d\u0161a adresuj\u00fa \u013eudia p\u00e1r sek\u00fand po zozn\u00e1men\u00ed sa. \u00c1no, to je skinny shaming a\u00a0deje sa to. Bohu\u017eia\u013e, nehovor\u00ed sa o\u00a0\u0148om, preto\u017ee stoj\u00ed v\u00a0\u00fazad\u00ed za fat shamingom.<\/p>\n Skinny shaming je ostr\u00e1 kritika \u0161t\u00edhlej postavy<\/strong>. V\u00a0podstate hovor\u00edme o\u00a0akejsi diskrimin\u00e1cii, ktor\u00e1 odzrkad\u013euje charakter adres\u00e1ta. Na druhej starne m\u00f4\u017ee \u00eds\u0165 aj o oby\u010dajnu nevedomos\u0165.<\/span> V ka\u017edom pr\u00edpade sa ne\u010dakan\u00fd\u00a0\u00fader pod p\u00e1s pochopite\u013ene podp\u00ed\u0161e na na\u0161om sebavedom\u00ed a\u00a0psychickom zdrav\u00ed. Nepozn\u00e1me pr\u00edbehy \u013eud\u00ed, ktor\u00ed maj\u00fa menej k\u00edl (a naopak). Niektor\u00ed maj\u00fa r\u00fdchly metabolizmus, m\u00f4\u017eu zjes\u0165 aj ko\u0148a a\u00a0nepriber\u00fa ani gram. In\u00ed trpia psychick\u00fdmi alebo fyzick\u00fdmi poruchami, pre ktor\u00e9 nem\u00f4\u017eu pribra\u0165.<\/p>\n Nikto by nemal by\u0165 pre svoju v\u00e1hu znev\u00fdhod\u0148ovan\u00fd alebo zosmie\u0161\u0148ovan\u00fd. ILUSTRA\u010cN\u00c1 FOTOGRAFIA\n <\/p>\n Pam\u00e4t\u00e1m si, ke\u010f som sa prv\u00fdkr\u00e1t stretla so skinny shamingom. Mala som desa\u0165 rokov. Ponevierala som sa pri kuchynskom stole, kde boli aj in\u00ed \u013eudia. V\u00a0tom vo\u0161la do izby babi\u010dkina kamar\u00e1tka, ktor\u00e1 sa na m\u0148a pozrela a\u00a0chladne skon\u0161tatovala: ,,Preboha, k\u0155mia ju v\u00f4bec rodi\u010dia?\u201c<\/em> Vtedy som spozornela a\u00a0v\u0161imla som si, \u017ee v\u0161etci v\u00a0miestnosti pritak\u00e1vaj\u00fa<\/strong>.<\/p>\n Nikto neprejavil empatiu, nikto tej \u017eene nepovedal, \u017ee je drz\u00e1. Tv\u00e1rili sa, \u017ee sa ni\u010d nestalo a\u00a0veselo pokra\u010dovali v\u00a0rozhovoroch. Ja som zostala st\u00e1\u0165 zahanben\u00e1 a\u00a0prem\u00fd\u0161\u013eala som, \u010do je so mnou zle. Doteraz sa mi vyn\u00e1ra ten pocit pr\u00e1zdnoty a\u00a0rozru\u0161enia. Ani po nieko\u013ek\u00fdch rokoch sa v\u0161ak ni\u010d nezmenilo. Ak sa s\u00a0niek\u00fdm podel\u00edm o\u00a0svoj pr\u00edbeh, tak sa zv\u00e4\u010d\u0161a nedo\u010dk\u00e1m empatie. Skinny shaming sa stal takpovediac spolo\u010densky prijate\u013en\u00fd.<\/strong><\/p>\n Niektor\u00ed \u013eudia v d\u00f4sledku ,,\u0161ikany\u201c za\u010dn\u00fa nosi\u0165 vo\u013enej\u0161ie veci, vyh\u00fdbaj\u00fa sa \u010diernej farbe, preto\u017ee ich zo\u0161t\u00edh\u013euje (zbyto\u010dne upozor\u0148uje na chud\u00e9 \u010dasti tela). C\u00edtia, \u017ee sa musia prisp\u00f4sobi\u0165, aby sa vyhli negat\u00edvnej odozve. ILUSTRA\u010cN\u00c1 FOTOGRAFIA\n Celkom ur\u010dite nie je v\u00a0poriadku zahanbova\u0165 niekoho na z\u00e1klade jeho telesnej hmotnosti, bez oh\u013eadu na \u010d\u00edslo. V pr\u00edpade skinny shamingu<\/strong> si \u013eudia v\u00e4\u010d\u0161inou neuvedomuj\u00fa, \u017ee v skuto\u010dnosti niekoho ,,zosmie\u0161\u0148uj\u00fa\u201c. Myslia si, \u017ee ide o\u00a0dobre mienen\u00fa radu. Akoby sa nie\u010do r\u00e1zom zmenilo, ke\u010f vyslovia \u010darovn\u00fa formulku ,,k\u00fap si nie\u010do na jedenie\u201c.\u00a0M\u00f4\u017eeme ich zrejme len ubezpe\u010di\u0165, \u017ee nemusia ma\u0165 o\u00a0n\u00e1s obavy.<\/p>\n \u0160t\u00edhlos\u0165 sa \u010dasto pova\u017euje za ak\u00e9si privil\u00e9gium<\/strong>, v\u010faka odvek\u00e9mu krit\u00e9riu kr\u00e1sy. No, nie je vyl\u00fa\u010den\u00e9, \u017ee sa n\u00e1m spolo\u010dnos\u0165 nebude vysmieva\u0165 za to, \u017ee sme a\u017e pr\u00edli\u0161 chud\u00ed (nech to znamen\u00e1 \u010doko\u013evek). Pravdupovediac je zvl\u00e1\u0161tne v\u00a0akom svete \u017eijeme, preto\u017ee sa neust\u00e1le prisp\u00f4sobujeme n\u00e1zorom druh\u00fdch. Samozrejme s\u00fa sp\u00f4soby, ako efekt\u00edvne bojova\u0165 proti skinny shamingu. V\u00a0prvom rade mus\u00edme za\u010da\u0165 milova\u0165 na\u0161e telo, aby n\u00e1s nerozhodil n\u00e1zor \u013eud\u00ed, ktor\u00ed nie s\u00fa v\u00a0na\u0161om \u017eivote d\u00f4le\u017eit\u00ed. Faktom je, \u017ee niektor\u00ed n\u00e1s bud\u00fa aj tak s\u00fadi\u0165.<\/p>\n \u010eal\u0161\u00edm \u00fa\u010dinn\u00fdm sp\u00f4sobom je nezosta\u0165 ticho<\/strong>. Ak n\u00e1m niekto verb\u00e1lne ubl\u00ed\u017ei, tak mu zdvorilo vysvetl\u00edme, kde spravil chybu. Vzdel\u00e1vajme \u013eud\u00ed.<\/p>\n Pam\u00e4tajme, \u017ee cie\u013eom je ma\u0165 zdrav\u00e9 telo, nie chud\u0161iu alebo pln\u0161iu postavu. Navy\u0161e kr\u00e1sa vych\u00e1dza zvn\u00fatra. Ak ste sa niekedy hanbili za svoje telo (bezoh\u013eadu na proporcie), tak najlep\u0161ou radou je, za\u010dnite sa milova\u0165 tak\u00ed, ak\u00ed ste. Bu\u010fte v\u010fa\u010dn\u00ed za to, \u017ee ste zdrav\u00ed a\u00a0ka\u0161lite na to, \u010do si o\u00a0v\u00e1s mysl\u00ed ,,svet\u201c.<\/strong><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":" \u010co v\u00e1m napadne ako prv\u00e9, ke\u010f po\u010dujete v\u00fdraz \u201ebody-shaming\u201c? Ur\u010dite sa v\u00e1m vybavil obraz \u010dloveka s nadv\u00e1hou, z ktor\u00e9ho si robia srandu. 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\u010co je skinny shaming?<\/h3>\n
SKUTO\u010cN\u00dd PR\u00cdBEH<\/strong><\/span><\/h3>\n
Je skinny shaming v poriadku?<\/h3>\n
D\u00e1 sa proti tomu bojova\u0165?<\/h3>\n