{"id":7969,"date":"2022-11-03T00:00:00","date_gmt":"2022-11-02T23:00:00","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/instrid.sk\/uncategorized\/co-je-laska\/"},"modified":"2022-11-03T00:00:00","modified_gmt":"2022-11-02T23:00:00","slug":"co-je-laska","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/instrid.sk\/en\/archiv\/co-je-laska\/","title":{"rendered":"\u010co je l\u00e1ska?"},"content":{"rendered":"

L\u00e1sku najlep\u0161ie op\u00ed\u0161ete, ke\u010f sa star\u00e1te o die\u0165a alebo dom\u00e1ce zviera. L\u00e1ska ni\u010d ne\u017eiada sp\u00e4\u0165. Nepotrebujete, aby v\u00e1m l\u00e1sku niekto op\u00e4toval. Jednoducho milujete a je to jednostrann\u00e9.<\/em> Urban Dictionary<\/p>\n

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\u00dastredn\u00fd bod l\u00e1sky<\/h3>\n

Pod\u013ea psychol\u00f3gov je \u00fastrednou my\u0161lienkou l\u00e1sky chcie\u0165, aby bol druh\u00fd \u010dlovek \u0161\u0165astn\u00fd a zdrav\u00fd<\/strong>. \u010ci u\u017e ide o rodi\u010da, ktor\u00fd oblieka svoje novorodeniatko, jedn\u00e9ho s\u00farodenca, ktor\u00fd br\u00e1ni druh\u00e9ho na ihrisku, alebo o pocit, ktor\u00fd m\u00e1te pri \u00faspechoch svojho partnera. V\u0161etky pr\u00edpady l\u00e1sky zah\u0155\u0148aj\u00fa t\u00fa\u017ebu, aby sa niekto in\u00fd c\u00edtil dobre a mal sa dobre.<\/p>\n

L\u00e1ska m\u00e1 biologick\u00e9 korene<\/h3>\n

\u201eL\u00e1ska ako tak\u00e1 nie je len em\u00f3cia. Je to biologick\u00fd proces, ktor\u00fd je dynamick\u00fd a obojsmern\u00fd vo viacer\u00fdch dimenzi\u00e1ch. Napr\u00edklad soci\u00e1lne interakcie medzi jednotlivcami sp\u00fa\u0161\u0165aj\u00fa kognit\u00edvne a fyziologick\u00e9 procesy, ktor\u00e9 ovplyv\u0148uj\u00fa emocion\u00e1lne a du\u0161evn\u00e9 stavy. Telo vyh\u013ead\u00e1va l\u00e1sku a neust\u00e1le reaguje na interakciu s milovan\u00fdmi osobami alebo na absenciu takejto interakcie.\u201c<\/em> Sue Carter a Stephen W. Porges, vedeck\u00ed pracovn\u00edci Research Triangle Institute International v Severnej Karol\u00edne, USA.<\/p>\n

Neurofyziologick\u00e9 \u0161t\u00fadie ukazuj\u00fa, \u017ee u \u013eud\u00ed, ktor\u00ed pre\u017e\u00edvaj\u00fa v\u00e1\u0161niv\u00fa l\u00e1sku, doch\u00e1dza k zv\u00fd\u0161enej aktiv\u00e1cii oblast\u00ed mozgu spojen\u00fdch s odmenou a pote\u0161en\u00edm<\/strong>. Po\u010das ich aktiv\u00e1cie sa do tela uvo\u013e\u0148uj\u00fa chemick\u00e9 l\u00e1tky ako oxytoc\u00edn, vazopres\u00edn a dopam\u00edn<\/strong>, ktor\u00e9 vyvol\u00e1vaj\u00fa pocity \u0161\u0165astia a euf\u00f3rie.<\/p>\n

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Horm\u00f3n oxytoc\u00edn<\/h3>\n

Jedn\u00fdm z prvkov, ktor\u00fd sa opakovane objavuje v bioch\u00e9mii l\u00e1sky, je neuropeptid oxytoc\u00edn<\/strong>. U ve\u013ek\u00fdch cicavcov oxytoc\u00edn preber\u00e1 hlavn\u00fa \u00falohu pri rozmno\u017eovan\u00ed. Pom\u00e1ha vypudi\u0165 die\u0165a z maternice, aktivuje tvorbu matersk\u00e9ho mlieka a vytv\u00e1ra selekt\u00edvne a trval\u00e9 puto medzi matkou a potomkom<\/strong>. \u013dudsk\u00e9 matky si buduj\u00fa siln\u00e9 a trval\u00e9 puto so svojimi novorodencami hne\u010f po naroden\u00ed a v obdob\u00ed, ktor\u00e9 je nevyhnutn\u00e9 pre v\u00fd\u017eivu a pre\u017eitie die\u0165a\u0165a. Av\u0161ak aj otcovia, star\u00ed rodi\u010dia a adopt\u00edvni rodi\u010dia si vytv\u00e1raj\u00fa celo\u017eivotn\u00e9 v\u00e4zby k de\u0165om. Predbe\u017en\u00e9 vedeck\u00e9 d\u00f4kazy nazna\u010duj\u00fa, \u017ee u\u017e samotn\u00e1 pr\u00edtomnos\u0165 die\u0165a\u0165a uvo\u013e\u0148uje u dospel\u00fdch oxytoc\u00edn<\/strong>. Die\u0165a n\u00e1s prakticky \u201cn\u00fati\u201c, aby sme ho milovali.<\/p>\n Vernos\u0165 je v\u00fdhodn\u00e1 najm\u00e4 pre ml\u00e1\u010fat\u00e1, ktor\u00e9 sa u\u010dia od oboch rodi\u010dov. Labute, slony, termity a gibony sa m\u00f4\u017eu p\u00fd\u0161i\u0165 nekone\u010dnou l\u00e1skou. (Foto: Pavel Danilyuk)\n

\u0160t\u00fadie soci\u00e1lne monogamn\u00fdch cicavcov, ktor\u00e9 vytv\u00e1raj\u00fa dlhotrvaj\u00face soci\u00e1lne v\u00e4zby, ako napr\u00edklad hrabo\u0161e pr\u00e9riov\u00e9, pom\u00e1haj\u00fa vedcom pochopi\u0165 biol\u00f3giu soci\u00e1lneho spr\u00e1vania \u013eud\u00ed. V\u00fdskum u hrabo\u0161ov nazna\u010duje, \u017ee rovnako ako u \u013eud\u00ed m\u00e1 oxytoc\u00edn v\u00fdznamn\u00fa \u00falohu v soci\u00e1lnych interakci\u00e1ch a rodi\u010dovskom spr\u00e1van\u00ed. Pre soci\u00e1lnu v\u00e4zbu s\u00fa obzvl\u00e1\u0161\u0165 d\u00f4le\u017eit\u00e9 interakcie medzi oxytoc\u00ednom a pr\u00edbuzn\u00fdm peptidom, vazopres\u00ednom<\/strong>.\u00a0<\/em><\/p>\n

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Z\u00e1le\u017e\u00ed na tom, ak\u00fdm jazykom l\u00e1sky hovor\u00edte<\/h3>\n

Pred tridsiatimi rokmi autor a pastor Gary Chapman predstavil my\u0161lienku, \u017ee existuje p\u00e4\u0165 sp\u00f4sobov l\u00e1sky. Chapman tvrd\u00ed, \u017ee ka\u017ed\u00fd \u010dlovek m\u00e1 niektor\u00e9 jazyky l\u00e1sky, ktor\u00e9 uprednost\u0148uje pred in\u00fdmi<\/strong>, a \u017ee vz\u0165ahy bud\u00fa najlep\u0161ie fungova\u0165, ke\u010f sa budeme sna\u017ei\u0165 prejavova\u0165 l\u00e1sku v jazykoch, ktor\u00e9 druh\u00e1 osoba najviac uprednost\u0148uje<\/strong>.<\/p>\n Foto: Jep Gambardella\n

Tu je p\u00e4\u0165 jazykov l\u00e1sky, ktor\u00e9 vymedzil:<\/p>\n

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  • Slovn\u00e9 potvrdenia:<\/strong> Vyjadrenie n\u00e1klonnosti a starostlivosti. Slovn\u00e9 vyznania o tom, \u010do si na druhom cen\u00edte, a ako je pre v\u00e1s d\u00f4le\u017eit\u00fd.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n

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    • Kvalitne str\u00e1ven\u00fd \u010das:<\/strong> Tr\u00e1venie spolo\u010dn\u00e9ho \u010dasu, pri ktorom sa s\u00fastred\u00edte na pr\u00edtomnos\u0165 druhej osoby.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n

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      • Slu\u017eba:<\/strong> Starostlivos\u0165 a s \u0148ou spojen\u00e9 \u00fakony, ktor\u00e9 pom\u00f4\u017eu druh\u00e9mu, aj ke\u010f pre v\u00e1s nemaj\u00fa \u017eiadny pozit\u00edvny v\u00fdznam.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n

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        • Dar\u010deky:<\/strong> Darovanie vecn\u00fdch darov, ktor\u00e9 ukazuje, \u017ee skuto\u010dne mysl\u00edte na priania druh\u00e9ho.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n

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          • Fyzick\u00fd dotyk:<\/strong> Pou\u017e\u00edvanie fyzick\u00fdch prejavov n\u00e1klonnosti.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n

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            L\u00e1sku najlep\u0161ie op\u00ed\u0161ete, ke\u010f sa star\u00e1te o die\u0165a alebo dom\u00e1ce zviera. L\u00e1ska ni\u010d ne\u017eiada sp\u00e4\u0165. Nepotrebujete, aby v\u00e1m l\u00e1sku niekto op\u00e4toval. Jednoducho milujete a je<\/p>","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[51],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-7969","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-archiv","two-columns"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/instrid.sk\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/7969","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/instrid.sk\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/instrid.sk\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/instrid.sk\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/instrid.sk\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=7969"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/instrid.sk\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/7969\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/instrid.sk\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=7969"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/instrid.sk\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=7969"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/instrid.sk\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=7969"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}